It always starts off great. He’s nice, funny, he texts you back…and then after he gets what he wants he’s MIA until he deems you worthy of his time.
This, my friends, is called a fuckboy. Here’s four indicators that you may be one of his side chicks.
- He says he’s “different and not like the other guys.”
In my experience, someone who says this is just like the other guys. They can talk the talk but they can’t walk the walk. Let them show you they are different by their actions. Remember ladies, actions speak louder than words.
- He only talks to you on Snapchat or another form of social media rather than using your phone number.
Let’s be real, ladies. If he won’t give you his phone number or talk to you on anything other than social media, he’s most definitely a fuckboy with a serious girlfriend who he doesn’t want you to know about. Obvi….actions speak louder than words.
- He uses the excuse, “I’ve just been busy lately”, and only makes time for you when it is convenient for him.
If someone really wants to be with you, they will make time for you no matter how “busy” they are. Also, you shouldn’t have to beg for someone to give you their time. Remember, actions speak louder than words. If you feel like you are constantly having to beg for some time, chances are he’s juggling his time between his side pieces…and you’re one of them.
- He won’t take you out in public.
When a guy won’t be seen with you in a public place, there’s probably a reason why. That reason is probably a wife, girlfriend, and/or other side pieces. Can I say it louder for the gals in the back? ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!
Ladies, don’t waste your time on someone who treats you like this. You are worth so much more than to be someone’s side chick. And honestly, if he’s already with someone and having side chicks, he’s trash. Take out the trash.